Thanksgiving-Giving Thanks (Revised)

Can you believe it’s already Thanksgiving? It feels like once Halloween passes that the fast forward button of life is pressed and we go through the next two months at maximum speed. Rushing through the holidays doesn’t exactly give us the time to reconnect with family and friends we seldom see, now does it?

So, how about slowing down your festivities a bit so you can savor not only your dinner, but the special time you spend with your friends and family as well. This Thanksgiving, consider starting a new tradition by playing, Who Am I?

All you need to play this game is some 5” x 8” index cards, a pen to write with and some thoughts about what you are thankful for.  Place the index cards and pens in a convenient place where the guests have easy access to them.

Ask all of your friends/family to take an index card and write down several things he/she is thankful for. Tell them not to just write down all the typical thanks, but to give special consideration to all of the good experiences that have occurred in their lives this past year. Tell each person to NOT put their name on their card.

For the young children who cannot write yet, you could either have an adult write down what the child dictates, or have the child draw a picture/pictures of what they are thankful for. If you have some crayons handy, you could also set those out for the some fancy artwork. (This is also a great way to keep the little ones occupied while you are busy with a million other things!)

Keep a basket/plate or container of some sort, next to the the cards and tell everyone to place their finished cards there. After all of the cards are turned in, it’s time to have some fun with them!

Gather everyone around and start passing around the basket with a pen. Each person should take out one card and read it out loud to everyone. Once the entire card is read, then everyone has to guess who wrote the card by the “clues” that were read. It’s not always easy to pick out the author of each card with limited information to go on, but it sure is fun! After all the guesses are in, then the person who wrote the card needs to fess up. Before passing the basket to the next person, be sure to write down the name of the author for that card.

After your Thanksgiving festivities are over take your stack of thankful cards and punch a hole in the top left hand side. Pull a ribbon through the hole to make these cards into a booklet and place it somewhere in the house where it can be seen. There you have it folks! Your very first decoration of the season!

To make this into a holiday tradition you can look back on and enjoy year after year, be sure to make a title page for your booklet and include the year on it. Pack your booklet away with your other decorations of the season and get it out for the next Thanksgiving gathering. Then, all of your friends/family  can enjoy looking back at what they were thankful for, as they fill out their new cards.

Wishing you all a safe, happy and memorable Thanksgiving holiday!

Warmly,

Mindi aka B.A. Bookworm

*This was a previous post that I updated. The original post can be found here.

Mom’s Twelve Days Of Christmas

It’s Christmas time once again, and I couldn’t let the season go by without resurrecting this gift to all of the amazing moms out there. Please sing these lyrics as loud as you can to evoke knowing smiles and overwhelming feelings of camaraderie with mothers around the world.

Mom’s Twelve Days Of Christmas
Lyrics thoughtfully revised by Mindi K. Flowers

On the first day of Christmas, my children gave to me
A chance to be a referee.

On the second day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the third day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the fourth day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the fifth day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the sixth day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Six temper tantrums
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the seventh day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Seven Christmas Concerts
Six temper tantrums
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the eighth day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Eight hairs-a-greyin’
Seven Christmas Concerts
Six temper tantrums
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the ninth day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Nine ornaments crashing
Eight hairs-a-greyin’
Seven Christmas Concerts
Six temper tantrums
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the tenth day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Ten songs-a-singin’
Nine ornaments crashing
Eight hairs-a-greyin’
Seven Christmas Concerts
Six temper tantrums
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the eleventh day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Eleven presents peeking
Ten songs-a-singin’
Nine ornaments crashing
Eight hairs-a-greyin’
Seven Christmas Concerts
Six temper tantrums
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

On the twelfth day of Christmas, my children gave to me
Twelve smiles heartwarming
Eleven presents peeking
Ten songs-a-singin’
Nine ornaments crashing
Eight hairs-a-greyin’
Seven Christmas Concerts
Six temper tantrums
Five handmade things
Four joyous moments
Three accidents
Two hugs with love
And another chance to be a referee.

Have a wonderful and amazing holiday season!

Reading Or Memorizing?

Children love to experience the same, enjoyable activities over and over again. It brings comfort to a child to watch something unfold, exactly as it has for them in the past. It sends a message. It says, there are things in life that you can rely on to be consistent. Children tend to be drawn to that uniform world, and we as adults support that objective by repeating the same pleasurable encounters for them.

Do it again

If you have small children around then I’ll bet that you hear that, a lot! We get the joy of playing the same games with our kids, singing the same familiar songs, and of course, we read the same books to our children time after time. Now, consistency has its place, however being consistent does not nurture a child’s curiosity or stimulate their problem solving abilities. So, its up to us as the adults, to ask questions that will help our children be innovative thinkers. Read more…

Stress Free Kids

Stress is a part of life, every life. You can’t avoid it. Sometimes stress can be a good thing…. when it gives us positive results. But, too much stress is not good for anyone. Children can and will stress about many things such as taking a test, getting good grades, or even whether or not they will be picked to be part of a team. For our younger children, stress can by caused by simple, every day frustrations. Unfortunately, many children don’t know of a constructive way to release their anxieties, and that could lead to a troubled child, which in turn could lead to some troubled parents.

Thankfully, there are things we can do to help our children relax and think clearly. The same relaxation techniques that are used for adults can also be used for children. I’ve recently been introduced to a wonderful place called, Stress Free Kids. I’ve been impressed not only by their mission, but with all of their innovative products as well. Read more…

Spelling Lists That Entertain The Brain

Do you remember when you were a kid and had to remember an entire list of spelling words? I do… and I found it very tedious and really boring. Now, when my own children bring home their spelling lists and work hard to remember all of those words, I try to make it into something a little more interesting.

Keep in mind that every aspect of these spelling words is important.
Don’t just focus on how to spell these words correctly, but also make sure that your child knows each definition and how to use every word properly in a sentence. Read more…

Making The Grade

What do you expect from your children when they get their report cards? To always make the grade? What is the grade that you feel your child is capable of making?

When I was a kid my parents were happy as long as I kept at least a C average…. and somehow I think that spoke to me. It made me think that being an average student was a fine place to be. Maybe it is a fine place to be, if you can say that you worked really hard, and studied for hours, and that was the very best you could do. But, for the most part, I couldn’t say that. Read more…

Play~Unplugged!

When the kids are stuck indoors its easy to rely on electronics for entertainment, but sometimes we as parents have got to help the kids get their creative juices flowing the old fashioned way. Currently, at my house, we are going on day three of no school due to the weather. It wouldn’t be so bad if the kids could play outside, but unfortunately they are stuck inside since it keeps on raining along with the freezing cold temperatures. Now, its one thing for it to be cold while you’re playing outside, but being wet and cold is just no fun!

So…. what are the kids to do? We don’t watch much T.V. at home, but my kids do love to play video games and use computers. Once in a while however, I pull the plug on them. Around here we even have a name for a day like this. We call it: Read more…